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Peter Kang(°¼þö)
Fuller Theological Seminary, Ph.D. ¼±±³ÇÐ (Family Healing)
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Christina Kang(°Çý°æ)
Fuller Theological Seminary, Ph.D. ¼±±³ÇÐ (Leadership)
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(Understanding What Falling in Love is All About)
·Î¸ÇƽÇÑ »ç¶ûÀÇ ±Ù¿ø(The Origin of Romantic Love)
·Î¸ÇƽÇÑ »ç¶ûÀ» º¸´Â »õ·Î¿î ½Ã°¢(A New Look at Romantic Love)
´Ù¸¥ ¹®È¿¡¼ÀÇ ·Î¸ÇƽÇÑ »ç¶û(Romantic Love in Other Cultures)
·Î¸ÇƽÇÑ »ç¶ûÀÇ ÀÌ·Ð(Theories of Romantic Love)
Æı«ÀûÀÎ ¸°´ÙÀÇ ÈÇйÝÀÀ(Linda¡¯s Chemistry was Destructive)
ÇÑ »ç¶÷ ÀÌ»óÀÇ ¿µÈ¥ÀÇ ¹è¿ìÀÚ¸¦ °¡Áú ¼ö Àִ°¡?(Can You Have More Than One Soul Mate?)
¿µÈ¥ÀÇ ¹è¿ìÀÚ´Â ¸¸µé¾îÁø´Ù(Soul Mates are Formed)
°Ç°ÇÑ ¹æ¹ýÀ¸·Î »ó´ë¸¦ ¼±ÅÃÇ϶ó(Make Your Mate Selection Process Healthy)
¿¬½À 1£º²Þ²ã¿Â ¹è¿ìÀÚ Ã£±â(Finding Your Dreamed-about Mate)
¿¬½À 2£ºÀÚ½ÅÀÇ À̸¶°í °áÁ¤Çϱâ(Determining Your Imago)
2Àå »ç¶û¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ³»Àû/¿ÜÀû ÀúÇ×°¨ Ç¥ÇöÇϱâ
(Addressing Your Internal and External Resistance to Love)
¿µÈ¥ÀÇ ¹è¿ìÀÚ Ã£±â¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ¹«ÀǽÄÀûÀÎ °ÅºÎ°¨(Unconscious Resistance to Soul Mating)
»ç¶û À¯Çü 1: ȸÀÇÇü(The Skeptical Single)
»ç¶ûÀ» Æ÷±âÇÑ µµ³ª(Donna Gave Up on Love)
»ç¶û À¯Çü 2: ÁýÂøÇü(The Clinger or Glommer)
¿¤·»ÀÇ ÁýÂøÀ¸·Î ³¡³ª¹ö¸° °ü°è(Ellen¡¯s Glomming Cost Her a Relationship)
»ç¶û À¯Çü 3: Àº½ÅÇü(The Hider)
¿Ïº®ÁÖÀÇ Àº½ÅÇü ·Î¶ó(Laura, the Perfectionistic Hider)
»óó¹ÞÀº Àº½ÅÇü º£Æ¼(Betty, the Hurt Hider)
ÀÚÁ¸½É °ÇÑ Àº½ÅÇü »ç¸¸´Ù(Samantha, the Prideful Hider)
»ç¶û À¯Çü 4: °úÀ׸¸Á·Çü µ¶½Å(The Over-Content Single)
»ç¶û À¯Çü 5: ¹Î°¨ÇÑ ·Î¸Çƽ Çü(The Sensitive, Hopeless Romantic)
¹Î°¨ÇÏ°í ·Î¸ÇƽÇÑ ¸°(Lynn, the Sensitive, Hopeless Romantic)
»ç¶û À¯Çü 6: ¸¶¸¶º¸ÀÌ(The Mama¡¯s Boy/The Enmeshed Male)
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3Àå °ú°Å¸¦ ÇØ°áÇÏ¸é ´õ ³ªÀº ¹Ì·¡°¡ º¸ÀåµÈ´Ù
(Dealing Your Past Makes for a Better Future)
¹«ÀǽÄÀÇ »ý°¢(The Unconscious Mind)
·¯¼¿ÀÇ ¾ïÁ¦µÈ °íÅë(Russell¡¯s story of Repressed Pain)
¿ø°¡Á·(Family of Origin)
Çдë À¯Çü(Type of Abuse)
Á¶ À̾߱â(Joe¡¯s Story)
Àé À̾߱â(Jan¡¯s Story)
±¸³ú¿Í ½Å³ú(The Old Brain and the New Brain)
Æ®¸®»þÀÇ ¹ÝÀÀ ÀÛ¿ë(Trisha¡¯s Reactivity)
¿¬½À 3£º¿µÈ¥ Ä¡À¯µµ(The Soul Healogram)
4Àå ¾î¶»°Ô °Ç°ÇØÁú °ÍÀΰ¡£°Ç°ÇÑ »ç¶÷Àº °Ç°ÇÑ »ç¶÷¿¡°Ô ²ø¸°´Ù(How To Be Healthy£Healthy People Attract Healthy People)
Á¦´Ï À̾߱â(Jenny¡¯s story)
½¦¸® À̾߱â(Sheri¡¯s Story)
°³ÀÎÀû ¿µÈ¥ Ä¡À¯ ¸ñÇ¥(Individual Soul-Healing Goals)
¿¬½À 4£º°³ÀÎÀÇ ¿µÈ¥ Ä¡À¯ ¸ñÇ¥(Individual Soul-Healing Goals)
°ü°è ¸ñÇ¥(Relationship Goals)
¿¬½À 5£º°ü°è Àç°í Á¶»ç(Relationship Inventory)
Åä´ÏÀÇ °ü°è Àç°í Á¶»ç(Tony¡¯s Relationship Inventory)
5Àå ¿Ö ¹Ý´ë ¼ºÇâÀÇ À̼º¿¡°Ô ²ø¸®´Â °ÍÀϱî? (Learning Why Opposites Attract)
¿¡µå¿Í ½ºÅ×À̽à À̾߱â(Ed and Stacy¡¯s Story)
»óÈ£ ÀÛ¿ë(Interactivity)
Åõ»ç(Projection)
½ºÅÄ°ú ·í À̾߱â(Stan and Ruth¡¯s Story)
ÀÒ¾î¹ö¸° ÀÚ¾Æ Ã£±â(Finding Your Lost Self)
¿¬½À 6£ºGIFT ¿¬½À(GIFT Exercise)
¿¬½À 7£º´õ ±íÀÌ Æı⠿¬½À(The Digging Deeper Exercise)
¸Þ¸®¿Í ¿ùÆ® À̾߱â(Mary¡¯s and Walt¡¯s Story)
6Àå »ç¶ûÀÇ ´Ü°è
(Navigating the Stages of Love Relationship)
·Î¸Çƽ ´Ü°è(The Romantic Love Stage)
Èû°Ü·ç±â ´Ü°è(The Power Struggle Stage)
µ¥¸¯°ú ´Þ¸°ÀÇ Èû°Ü·ç±â(Derrick and Darlene¡¯s Power Struggle
ÀÚ°¢ ´Ü°è(The Awakening Stage)
°á´Ü ´Ü°è(The Commitment Stage)
¿µÈ¥À» Ä¡À¯ÇÏ´Â »ç¶ûÀÇ ´Ü°è(The Stage of Soul-Healing Love)
µ¥¸¯°ú ´Þ¸°ÀÇ °á´Ü(Derrick and Darlene¡¯s Commitment)
¿ìÁ¤°ü°è ¿äÀÎ(The Friendship Factor)
µô ¸ÞÀÌÄ¿¿Í µô ºê·¹ÀÌÄ¿(Deal Makers & Deal Breakers)
µ¥¸¯°ú ´Þ¸°ÀÇ µô ¸ÞÀÌÄ¿¿Í µô ºê·¹ÀÌÄ¿(Derrick and Darlene¡¯s Deal Maker and Deal Braker)
³»¸éÀÇ ¾ÆÀÌ ³ª´©±â(Sharing Your Inner Child)
µÎ·Á¿ò¿¡ ´ëóÇÑ µ¥¸¯°ú ´Þ¸°(Derrick and Darlene Deal with Fear)
¾àÈ¥(Engagement)
7Àå Æò»ýÀÇ ¹Ý·ÁÀÚ¸¦ ¾î¶»°Ô ¾Ë ¼ö ÀÖ³ª?
(How Do You Know If You Have Found Mr. or Ms. Right?)
Áß¿äÇÑ ÀλýÀÇ Áú¹®µé(Important Life Questions)
»ó´ãÀÚ Ã£±â(Finding a Counselor)
¿¬½À 8£º°Ç°ÇÑ ¹è¿ìÀÚ(The Healthy Partner Profile)
ÀÌÈ¥ÀÇ ¿øÀÎ/¸¸Á·ÇÑ °áÈ¥»ýÈ°ÀÇ ¿øÀÎ(Causes of Divorce/Causes of Marital Satisfaction)
µô ¸ÞÀÌÄ¿ ã±â(Spotting Deal Makers)
ƼÆÄ´ÏÀÇ µô ºê·¹ÀÌÄ¿(Tiffany¡¯s Deal Breakers)
ÀϹÝÀûÀÎ µô ¸ÞÀÌÄ¿¿Í µô ºê·¹ÀÌÄ¿(Common Deal Makers and Deal Breakers)
±âµµÇØ¿Â ¹è¿ìÀÚ(Your Prayed-about Mate)
·Ð°ú µ¥ºñ À̾߱â(Ron and Devi¡¯s Story)
8Àå ¾àÈ¥À» ÇßÀ¸´Ï ÀÌÁ¦ ¾î¶»°Ô ÇÒ °ÍÀΰ¡?
(Now That You Are Engaged, What Do You Do?)
°áÈ¥ ¿¹ºñ »ó´ã¿¡¼ ¹è¿ö¾ß ÇÏ´Â À¯µ¶¼º ¹®Á¦µé(What Premarital Counseling Should Cover: Toxic Subjects)
°¥µî °ü¸®(Conflict Management)
°¥µî ÇØ°á(Conflict Resolution)
¿¬½À 9£º°¥µî ŸÀÔ °áÁ¤Çϱâ(Determining Your Conflict Style)
½¦¸±°ú ¶öÇÁÀÇ °¥µî ŸÀÔ(Cheryl¡¯s Changes in Conflict Style)
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